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Why Am I Only Speaking to Recruiters When I Need a Job?

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Why do I only reach out to recruiters when ‘I’ am looking for a job?

It is a question I think a lot of great candidates should ask themselves. 

Because the truth is, by that point, the conversation is already slightly reactive. Something has changed. The market feels uncertain. A role has gone wrong. A boss has moved on. The commute has become painful. The progression has dried up. The energy has shifted. And suddenly, the recruiter becomes useful. But the best relationships in recruitment are not built in panic mode. They are built way before there is a problem to solve.

Some of the strongest candidates I know are not actively looking. They are delivering. They are building brands, driving strategies, growing teams, fixing broken functions, launching new propositions and creating real commercial impact. They are not sat there refreshing job boards. 

Today’s Candidate Is Tomorrow’s Hiring Manager

But here is the interesting part. Those same brilliant candidates often become the best clients. 

Because when you are good at what you do, eventually you are trusted to build. You inherit teams. You shape functions. You are asked to hire people who can elevate the business around you. And when that moment comes, who do you call? Often, it is the recruiter you only ever spoke to when you needed something. That is where I think people miss a trick.

A Recruiter’s Value Goes Beyond Job Opportunities

A good recruiter should not just be someone who sends you jobs. They should understand the market you operate in, the talent around you, what businesses are paying, who is building properly, who is losing great people and where the opportunities are starting to shift.

That knowledge has value whether you are looking for a job or building a team. The best conversations I have are not always “Jack, I need a new role.”

Sometimes they are:

  • “Jack, what are you seeing in the market?” 
  • “Jack, how are companies structuring their marketing teams?” 
  • “Jack, what does good look like for this hire?” 
  • “Jack, are we paying enough to attract the right person?” 

Recruitment Should Be a Long-Term Partnership

That is where proper recruitment becomes consultative. It becomes about understanding people, teams, ambitions, gaps, pressure points and growth. My advice to strong candidates is simple: do not wait until you need help. 

Harvard Business Review recently highlighted that the strongest professional networks are built through authentic, long-term relationships rather than transactional interactions when a need arises. The same principle applies to recruiter relationships, the value is often created long before a vacancy, promotion or career move is on the horizon.

Build recruiter relationships when things are going well. Keep people updated. Share what you are building. Talk about the challenges in your team. Ask what others are doing. Be curious. Because at some point, you may not be the candidate. You may be the hiring manager. 

And when that happens, you will want someone around you who already understands your world, your standards, your pace, your ambitions and the type of people who will make a genuine impact. 

Recruitment is not just about finding your next job. Done properly, it is about building careers, teams, functions and businesses. So maybe the better question is not, “Why do I only reach out to recruiters when I need a job ?” Maybe it is, “What could I build if I had the right recruitment partner before I needed one?” 

If you’d like to continue the conversation, connect with Jack on LinkedIn and stay up to date with his thoughts on the market, hiring trends and career development.

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